Mistress Alexa

I am Mistress Alexa, the captivating force you’ve longed for. I am sensual, seductive and unapologetically planning to control your mind, body and soul.

Have you yearned to surrender to the allure of a true Mistress? Your deepest fantasies can now become reality. There is nothing more delicious than witnessing that look of desperate adoration; a look I will expertly use to draw you under my spell. A touch of one sided obsession is not only expected, but desired.

At 5’4” and 115 lbs., with flowing dark brown hair and striking brown eyes, I embody a perfect blend of elegance and power. My natural beauty and commanding presence combine the charm of the girl next door with an intensity that is impossible to resist. My teasing touch and intoxicating aura will lead you on an unforgettable journey of submission.

P.S. Please kindly follow my Twitter X account for recent photo’s, videos and more to get a glimpse of my lifestyle. To ensure my safety screening is mandatory and non negotiable for all new friends.

Visuals

Experience

I take immense pleasure in guiding you through experiences of indulgence and surrender. Whether your kinky fettishes lie in golden showers, goddess worship, foot and ass fettishes, bondage, pegging, sensory deprivation, cross dressing, shopping, financial domination or beyond….your search ends here. I welcome every inquiry with the utmost respect and expect the same in return. Surrender to me and let our experience begin.

Golden Showers
Goddess worship
Foot and ass fettish
Bondage
Pegging
Sensory deprivation
Cross dressing
Shopping ($1,000 minimum)
Financial domination

Stats

Age: 30’s
Height: 5’4
Weight: 115 lbs.
Nationality: Caucasian
Bust: 32DD
Dress Size: XS/Size 0
Shoe Size: Heels 7/37 and Boots 9/39
Eyes: Brown
Hair: Brunette
Tattoos: No
Smoke: No
Education: Bachelors Degree
Location: Based in New York, New York
Hosting: Incall / Outcall
Sexuality: Bisexual

Investment

Rates

Texting/Phone Call/Online Virtual Zoom:
Texting Weekly (7 Days Unlimited): $1,000
Phone Call (30 Minutes): $300
Phone Call (60 Minutes): $500
Online Virtual Zoom Date (30 Minutes): $350
Online Virtual Zoom Date (60 Minutes): $700

Sensual Domination

1 Hour (sensual domination aka kinky fettishes listed below): $700
1.5 Hours (sensual domination aka kinky fettishes listed below): $1,700
2 Hours (sensual domination aka kinky fettishes listed below): $2,100
3 Hours (1 Hour cocktails) + (2 Hours sensual domination aka kinky fettishes listed below): $2,700*
4 Hours (2 Hours dinner) + (2 Hours kinky fettishes listed below): $3,000**
Kinky Fettishes: (golden shower, goddess worship, foot and ass fettish, bondage, pegging, sensory deprivation, shopping $1,000 minimum and financial domination).
Perfect first date: *
Personal favorite: **

Deposits

A 25% discreet digital deposit labeled, “Consulting” via Zelle, YouPay or Venmo is required for all dates. The transaction will show up on your statement as a discreet business name. Flight and/or accommodation expenses for our date are typically added to the initial deposit as well.

Tipping

Tipping between 15-25% is suggested. Tips are accepted in cash or digitally via Zelle, YouPay or Venmo discreetly labeled, “Consulting.”

Change of Scenery

Dates longer than 2 hours require activity and a change of scenery away from the suite/dungeon.

Refunds

Rates are for my time and companionship only. No refunds.

Cancellation Policy

I know life happens and sometimes it’s out of our control. That said, I appreciate you being considerate of my schedule as I will yours. In the rare event that I need to cancel, your deposit will be fully refunded.

If you need to cancel our appointment within:

48 hours – 50% cancellation fee.
24 hours – 100% cancellation fee.
No call, no show – 100% cancellation fee.

By booking, you agree to my cancellation policy. Failure to send a cancellation fee will result in permanent termination of all communication and potential addition to the industry wide blacklist.

Etiquette & FAQ’s

How should I introduce myself?

Your initial message helps me get a feel for whether we’ll be a good fit. In addition to the required information, you can share what you’re looking for out of our time together (a PG version), your interests, hobbies or anything else that makes you, you.

What is the screening process?

Full name:
Email:
Ethnicity:
Date of birth:
Phone number:
Service type: Sensual domination
Desired date of booking:
Desired time of booking (EST):
Duration:
Incall/Outcall/Texting/Phone Calls/Online Virtual Zoom date:
Where (address)?
What city?
Where did you hear about me?
LinkedIn/business website/social media:
P411 number:
TER number:
Outfit requests:
Special requests (other than sending face pictures, I can’t send for privacy reasons)?
Reference 1 (email and website):
Reference 2 (email and website):
Valid Gov’t ID (a close up with all information visible):
Selfie holding valid Gov’t ID (a close up with all information visible):
Send a blank email from your work email labeled “Contact Info,” (I have a discreet email for this – send me an email and I’ll provide the discreet email address):
Tell me about yourself:

All information listed above is mandatory and non-negotiable for all first encounters for all dates (texting, phone calls, virtual online Zoom and in person).

What form of payment do you accept?

I prefer cash, however I also accept discreet digital payments labeled, “Consulting” via Zelle, YouPay or Venmo.

The discreet digital transaction will show up on your statement as a discreet business name.

How should I present my investment?

Incalls: Please place the investment on a counter, in plain sight, seconds after you arrive.

Outcalls: Please have the investment on the bathroom sink prior to my arrival.

In Public: Please discreetly hand it to me in a book or gift bag within moments of my arrival. Please don’t make me have to ask.

Do you sign non-disclosure agreements?

I’ve have gladly signed NDA’s in the past and have no problem doing so again in the future. Please forward the document over to Astra (my trusted assistant) a minimum of 24 hours in advance of our date to allow ample time for a read through.

Do you offer incall?

While I do not offer use of my cute pieds-à-terre for incalls, I am more than happy to host our date in an upscale spot for an additional fee.

How should I prepare for our date?

Great hygiene is paramount. The cleaner you are, the dirtier we can get. Please be freshly showered, with minty breath and clean trimmed fingernails. You can also shower in the beginning of our date without it interfering with our time.

Do you offer same day availability?

Booking in advance is your best bet, but I do enjoy the spontaneity of same day dates if my schedule allows.

Do you send pictures of your face before a date?

For my protection and security, I do not send pictures of my face before we meet.

What is your cancellation policy?

If you need to cancel our appointment within:

48 hours – 50% cancellation fee.
24 hours – 100% cancellation fee.
No call, no show – 100% cancellation fee.

By booking, you agree to my cancellation policy. Failure to send a cancellation fee will result in permanent termination of all communication and potential addition to the industry wide blacklist.

Do you accept or have any reviews?

Yes, please check out my reviews on P411 and TER.

What if I want to extend our time together?

Time flies when you’re having fun! I do offer in date extensions for $700 per hour.

How will you be dressed? Do you accept outfit requests?

I have an extensive wardrobe and I do accept outfit requests. If you request something that I don’t already own, please send a discreet digital payment or gift card in advance to Astra (my trusted assistant).

Do you provide references?

Yes, I do offer references as long as it’s been within one year of our last date. Please email Astra (my trusted assistant) so she’s aware and she will vouch for you.

How can I make our date more special?

I appreciate respect and thoughtfulness above all else. But, if you’re looking to set yourself apart, you can peruse my “Wishlist” for ideas on how to surprise me. I also enjoy sauvignon blanc, perfume, candles and any white flowers.

Favorite’s & Wishlist’s

Likes

Handwritten notes, white flowers (white roses, white ranunculus, white hydrangeas, white peonies and white tulips), tasting menus, black lingerie, black clothing, black shoes, rose scented white candles, spa, relaxation treatments, white oval diamonds, white gold (only), gift cards and shopping.

Hobbies and Interests

Working out (pilates, weight training, F45, Barry’s Bootcamp, Soul Cycle), meditating, long walks outdoors, traveling, hiking, scuba diving, golfing, tennis, reading, trading, blogging, yachting, cooking, art galleries, museums, watching documentaries, listening to podcasts, learning different languages, shopping and self care.

Scent

Jo Malone Red Roses, Chloe Roses, Gucci Bloom, Le Labo Rose 31, Penhaligon’s Coveted Duchess Rose, Christian Dior Rose Kabuki, Guerlain Rose Centifolia, Young Rose BYREDO, Rose of No Man’s Land BYREDO, Tom Ford Rose D’Amalfi and Maison Francis Kurkdjian A La Rose.

Drink of Choice

Sauvignon blanc, sancerre white wine, pinot grigio, pinot noir, port wine, rose champagne, prosecco, vodka soda, Papi Van Winkle, vodka dirty martini, expresso martini, sambuca, skinny lattes, green tea, iced tea, protein shakes and sparkling water.

Dessert

Fruit, sorbet, gelato, chocolate cake, crème brûlée, affogato, pecan pie, rice pudding, macarons, profiterole, eclair, cannoli’s, Lavain cookies, Chip City cookies, Magnolia’s banana pudding, Billy’s cupcakes, panna cotta, tiramisu, coconut cream pie, brownie ala mode, caramel flan and cheese cake.

NYC Restaurants

Masa, Le Bernadin, Daniel, Per Se, Eleven Madison Park, Jungsik, Gabriel Kreuther, Jean Georges, Le Coucou, Atera, Aquavit, Crane Club, Manhatta, The Modern, Polo Bar, Frevo, Chef’s Table at Brooklyn Fare, Sushi Noz, Atera, Le Pavillion, Atomix, Cote, Kosaka, Torrisi, Casa Tua, Saga, Caviar Russe, Don Angie, Marea, The Grill, Lobster Club, IL Postino, Chez FiFi, Carbone, Casa Cipriani Downtown, Fasano and Corner Store.

NYC Hotels

Aman, The Mark, The Carlyle, Baccarat, The Peninsula, Fouquet’s, Mandarin Oriental, The Greenwich, St. Regis, The Lowell, Casa Cipriani, Equinox Hotel, The Plaza, The Fifth Avenue Hotel, Park Lane, SoHo Grand, The Pierre, Ritz Carlton NoMad, Ritz Carlton Central Park, The Luxury Collection, The Langham, Lotte, The Whitby, The Wall Street Hotel, Crosby Street, Edition and The Standard.

Date Ideas

Spa, broadway, burlesque, jazz, ballet, picnic, comedy club, wine tasting, cooking classes, sommelier classes, mixology classes, ice skating, golfing, sporting events, music concerts, jazz clubs, history museums, art museums, art galleries, Michelin tastings, bowling, festivals, farmers market, speakeasy and art classes.

Wishlists

Curated Wishlists
Throne

Pampering and Self Care
Aman Spa
Equinox
Gloss Lab
Sephora
Body Factory Skincare

Travel
Delta
Uber
Lift

Lingerie
Agent Provocateur
Honey Birdette
Fluer Du Mal

Clothing
Saks Fifth Avenue
Revolve
Lululemon

Tour Suggestions

If you’d like to be among the first to know when I will be touring to your city or if there’s a particular city you’d love to suggest I include in my upcoming travel schedule, I warmly invite you to complete the form below.

You’ll receive advance notifications before dates are publicly announced, giving you priority access to my availability. This also allows me to better understand where interest is highest so I can thoughtfully plan my travels with you in mind. I truly value the opportunity to connect with those who take the time to share their preferences and I look forward to the possibility of arranging something special in the city nearest to you.

Contact

Ready to take the plunge? I’m delighted you are……

Astra (my trusted assistant) only responds to booking forms that are completed fully, so don’t be shy…. please share all the details. If the form gives you any trouble, just send an email and she’ll make sure everything flows seamlessly.

For my safety, screening is required for all first encounters and is non-negotiable. Rest assured, it’s quick, effortless and completely confidential. Your privacy is as important to me as the experience we’ll share.

I’m selective about who I welcome into my world and taking the time to fill out the form with care shows me you’re serious, which always leaves a lasting impression. I can’t wait to see if we’re the perfect match… and perhaps ignite something unforgettable.

I've read, understand and agree to the terms stated on the Etiquette & FAQ section (including the cancellation policy).

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Hello and Welcome,